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Speed indeed does kill!

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Speed indeed does kill!

12 March 2008 (Editorial, Khaleej Times)

TUESDAY morning’s road tragedy was without doubt the worst ever witnessed in the United Arab Emirates, and with few parallels elsewhere in similar conditions. It appears early morning fog and a little faster driving than circumstances would have allowed made for the deadly mix that caused an unbelievable accident involving around 200 cars, leaving approximately a dozen dead and many, many injured.

Expectedly, the authorities were quick to attend to the injured, in some serious cases making the difference between life and death. Such was the magnitude of the accident that even those that were left physically unhurt could not escape the psychological trauma such scenes invariably carry.

The government has acted wisely in directing the ministry of the interior to mobilise all available resources to meet the emergency. Once the immediate needs of the injured are met, that would also entail investigating very seriously all possible reasons for the mishap.

While the investigation progresses, the authorities cannot really be faulted for failure to take adequate steps. Only at the start of the month the government exhibited its seriousness regarding road safety by introducing stricter rules to offset disturbing accident statistics.

Ultimately, the inquiries are likely to find that the prime responsibility rests with the people behind the wheel. It is unfortunate that some drivers in this part of the world at least have yet to betray appreciation for risks speeding is likely to carry. It is difficult to understand why traffic violations rise in numbers that sometime seem unbelievable for a place that hosts perhaps the most diverse mix of people anywhere in the world.

It seems most people just don’t realise that disobeying traffic rules puts not only their own lives in jeopardy, but also those of others, a lesson some people are bent upon learning the hard way.

From eyewitness reports, it is clear that speeding in less than ideal visibility was the main reason for yesterday’s tragedy, one that was clearly avoidable simply by sticking to the most basic driving rules. Considering how busy the Abu Dhabi highway is, it ultimately is quite understandable that what started as a couple of cars colliding quickly built into a massive pile-up, one with few similar examples.

There is an important lesson in this for the few than can become cause of untold miseries for many. If the government is forced to make traffic rules even more strict, it is for the people’s own good. A good start can be made by initiating a comprehensive campaign to educate expatriates who can sometimes take longer than others to adapt to trying driving requirements of the UAE.

Maha Shivarathri – the universal Pati-patni day

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Today is Maha Shivratri.

These days, we blindly follow several different types of days, for eg: Valentines day, mothers day, fathers day, friendship day, no-smoking day and the list goes on and on. When we look at it Shivarathri is the truly traditional family day or pati-patni day, as I term it. Because, from the ancient times, devoted wife’s pray and observe fast on this day for the well being of their husband and children and vice-versa, husband’s observe religious rituals and prayers like chanting Rudram and chamakam to give grace and prosperity to the well being of own family and the society.

There are many stories associated with Shivaratri and its origins.

One is about lord shiva drinking a poison and he held it in his throat by binding it with a snake. The throat became blue due to the poison (Thus Lord Shiva is also known as Neelakantha) and Shiva remained unharmed. In another story, it is said that the whole world was once facing destruction and the Goddess Parvati worshiped her husband Shiva to save it. Parvati named the night for the worship of Iswara by mortals Maha-Sivaratri, or the great night of Siva. After creation was complete, Parvati asked Shiva of which rituals pleased him the most. The Lord replied that the 14th night of the new moon, during the month of Maagha, is my most favourite day. It is known as Shivaratri. Parvati repeated these words to her friends, from whom the word spread over all creation. Another story is about a hunter. Lubdhaka, a poor tribal man and a devotee of Shiva, once went into the deep forests to collect firewood. At nightfall, he became lost and could not find his way home. In the darkness, Lubdhaka climbed a bel tree, and sought safety and shelter in its branches until dawn. All night, he could hear the growls of tigers and wild animals, and was too frightened to leave the tree. In order to keep himself awake, he plucked one leaf at a time from the tree and then dropped it, while chanting the name of Shiva. By sunrise, he had dropped thousands of leaves on to a Shiva lingam, which he had not seen in the darkness. Lubdhaka’s all-night worship pleased Shiva. By the grace of Shiva the tigers and wild animals went away, and Lubdhaka not only survived but was rewarded with ‘divine bliss’.

While most Hindu festivals are celebrated during the day, Mahashivratri is celebrated during the night and day that come just before the new moon. Each new moon is dedicated to Shiva, but Mahashivratri is especially important because it is the night when he danced the ‘Tandav’, his cosmic dance. It also celebrates the wedding of Shiva and Sati, the mother divine. Night represents evil, injustice, ignorance, sin, violence, and misfortune. Tradition says that Shiva, like his symbol the new moon, appeared in order to save the world from darkness and ignorance, before the world entered complete darkness. Those who observe the Mahashivratri fast only break their fast the next morning, and eat the prasad offered to Shiva. Young girls observe the fast and worship Shiva so that he may bless them with good husbands. They sing devotional songs in praise of the lord, and holy texts are chanted throughout the night. The pandits in the temples perform the puja according to the scriptures. This is done four times during the night.

Dedication:

On this auspicious day, I would like to dedicate to AMMA and to our global forum a painting named Shivasakthi. It is also a dedication to all the loving mother’s, wife’s and sisters and also to all our fellow brothers for keeping our tradition and values always high, wherever we are.

I would like to also add a few words about this painting. This is created purely using powerpoint tools and it was done as a result of a few minutes of quite time at a small temple near REC Chathamangalam, Calicut. On that particular monsoon evening (somewhere in 1995), it happened to be that there was no power in that area, and the darshan of the deity at the time during deeparadhana created an everlasting memory in my mind. The decoration of the Devi idol, simple and small, by the melshanti (priest) was simply superb. I added to it a similar devotion at another temple, which is Avittathur Mahadeva temple. And the result is this creation – Shivasakthi.

At both these places, the time available by the melshanthis to decorate the idols during the time the sanctum sanctorum closed for pooja, is barely 10 minutes or so. And imagine yourself the result when the doors are opened. It is the epitomisation of the ultimate sraddha, the dedication and devotion to provide us a blissful presence. Can you imagine them practising this art somewhere else? Or re-doing it, if a little more of water has been added to the chandan and kunkum or bhasmam they mix in order to create these decorations.!!

There are many unsung heroes and these are a few among them. And it is also my way of tribute to the many who remain within the four walls of our own religious boundaries, who do not get to watch or listen to any of the niceties which we are blessed with.

No one has the patience these days, and to add ease to it, we have a wonderful creation called remote control. It makes things easy for our wandering minds to switch from one programme to another and to refrain from keeping focussed on one. We undergo severe rituals and follow procedures for many days and ultimately visit our favourite temples and the moment we are in front of the deity, we close our eyes and fall into deep prayers. At this moment, we go back to the old thoughts, photos etc, forgetting about the opportunity to meet the real lord who is in front of us in full – paadadi kesham. And we are pushed away for someone else to do his minutes or seconds of closed eye prayers. The moment you close your eyes, you forget your objectives. So, open your eyes, look at the realities, and react to it. As the prayer song “Geet nahi, Sur nahi, phir bhi mem gavoom”, in this spiritual sphere of mental peace and inner joy, the responsibility for success or failure is entirely one’s own.

Offering two special namams to AMMA, who has reached Lalitha Sahasra namam to all and every one, irrespective of caste, creed, religion, nationality:

Om sree sadacharapravarthikayai nama (She who makes things happen through good conduct)
Om Sree Shivasakthyaikya roopinyai nama (She who is unification of Shiva and Shakthi)

God bless and have a great time blogging.

Mind Speaks – Sreesanth

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Indian Fast bowler Sreesanth is really a personality to watch for all management enthusiast. Watch him dance with Sharukh Khan.

Coming soon, more about him and his style and the Sreesanth Syndrome.

Sarkozy: Low on dignity, high on humanity

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Sarkozy: Low on dignity, high on humanity
27 Jan 2008, 0047 hrs IST,Shashi Tharoor for TIMES OF INDIA

It is curious that even in the Indian media, the build-up to the visit this week of France’s president Nicolas Sarkozy focused quite so obsessively on his personal life. Had he secretly married the Franco-Italian model-singer Carla Bruni? Was he going to bring her to New Delhi as First Lady?

Such were the questions that dominated press articles about the impending arrival in India of a major political figure – and that was odd, not merely because there were more important things worth analysing on Franco-Indian relations, but because the Indian press has traditionally drawn a discreet veil over the private lives of our politicians.

Indeed the disconnect between what our journalists and editors claim to know about politicians and what they are willing to write about is rather striking. Members of the media talk quite openly (at least in living-room gossip) about things that in other countries would be the basis for investigative exposes.

I remember a very senior editor telling me, many years ago, about the alleged habit of a certain distinguished Scheduled Caste cabinet minister, while on tour around the country, of having Brahmin girls procured in each location for his nocturnal pleasure. When I asked why, if this was common knowledge, the editor’s own paper had never reported it, he looked quite startled and said, “We don’t do that sort of thing, my boy.”

So, journalists will tell you quite cheerfully that a certain former prime minister had lived most of his adult life in a menage-a-trois with his lady love and her complaisant husband, while continuing with a straight face to describe him as a bachelor. A senior minister lives openly with a political colleague, but she is described only as his party’s president, never as his companion. This is the Indian way: the private lives of public figures are deemed to be their business, not the public’s. And perhaps that is how it should be.

After all, that was how it used to be in the West; the sexual peccadilloes of assorted American presidents were simply not discussed until the Lewinsky scandal blew the veil off the Clinton White House.

In France, too, presidents were understood to be discreetly pursuing their extra-marital interests, but the press never discussed such stories; it was only upon the death of president Francois Mitterrand, for instance, that it was revealed he had maintained a long-time mistress and had had a daughter by her, whose appearance at his funeral was the first public acknowledgement of her existence. President Sarkozy’s own relationship with a well-known journalist – who even lived with him when his wife briefly left him – was never reported. So, what has happened to change all that?

Very simply, the president himself has opened his private life to public scrutiny. He has not merely conducted a romance with a media figure; he has flaunted it, taking his lady love (a model and singer) on overseas visits and being photographed with her, visiting tourist sites, holding hands, embracing. The media, invited to indulge its prurience, has lapped it all up.

But what our press seems to have missed in reproducing foreign news agency copy about the president’s indiscretion (and its negative effect on his standing) is the simple possibility that Sarkozy’s actions fit perfectly with a deliberate strategy to transform his office. What Nicolas Sarkozy has systematically done since his election is to take the French presidency, long known for its grandeur and its distance from the people – a presidency occupied by older men who rarely deigned to give press conferences and who would never have been praised for their accessibility – and to reboot it.

And what a reboot this has been. Superficial commentary has called Sarkozy “President bling-bling” and “the People magazine President”, but what he has done is to harness the power of popular imagery to the popularisation of his office. He has personalised the presidency, hyperactively launching and announcing his own initiatives in a dizzying array of fields, but if the presidency is a person, that person must transcend the presidency, or at least its familiar rituals and trappings.

Sarkozy has humanised his office by televising his presidential and personal life; instead of adapting himself to the presidency, he has adapted the presidency to himself, individualising his political power in an increasingly individualist society. The proliferation of media in the 21st century has made voyeurs out of every citizen. Sarkozy is the first major office-holder to realise this, and to cater to it for his political purposes.

To get on the front page with Carla Bruni is as relevant as making headlines with a State visit; the presidency is no longer a symbol, it is a flesh-and-blood man. Sarkozy gives the media just enough to make them more interested than they ever were in any of his predecessors, but not so much as to devalue his office (hence the secrecy about his marriage itself). It is almost as if Princess Diana was holding Tony Blair’s job.

This has, paradoxically, strengthened the presidency in France; in the Information Age, the French president is omnipresent in the information media. In speeches, press conferences, restless trips at home and abroad, interviews and meetings, he sets the agenda, announces policies, and takes initiatives that challenge established orthodoxies; the French now talk of “hyperpresidentialisation”. Sarkozy’s self-exposure fits into the plan; by revealing so much of himself, he reduces the distance between the presidency and the people.

Democracies increasingly like citizens to believe they have control of their own destinies by placing them in the hands of leaders they can relate to. Sarkozy is no remote seigneur; he is “one of us,” with his own passions, disappointments, needs. Conducting a public romance may have reduced the dignity of the presidency, but Sarkozy is president for an era in which dignity is less important than humanity. And few presidents have shown themselves to be as human, in every sense of the term, as Nicolas Sarkozy.